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New workshop on obsessive thought loops
For a while now I’ve been talking about a new workshop I’m building, specifically designed to help deal with one of the worst problems caused by limerence: obsessive thought loops. Obsessive thought loops are a huge problem. To judge from the number of people who contact me for support, they are the most distressing symptom […] The post New workshop on obsessive thought loops first appeared on Living with Limerence .
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More thoughts on obsessive thoughts
Busy with travelling and finishing the workshop this week, so here’s my latest video on how intrusive thoughts and rumination make addiction worse. Reminder that you can sign up for the workshop here: New workshop on obsessive thought loops The post More thoughts on obsessive thoughts first appeared on Living with Limerence .
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Workshop open for preorders
I’ve been preoccupied for the last few weeks. You might have noticed. Well, the workshop on How to Break Free of Obsessive Thought Loops in limerence is now, officially, open for preorders! As an early bird bonus, the price is reduced to $49 (standard price going forward will be $67), and for the first 20 […] The post Workshop open for preorders first appeared on Living with Limerence .
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Coffeehouse: social media expectancy
It’s October. Time for another visit to the LwL virtual coffee house. My week has been super busy with prep for the Obsessive Thoughts Workshop. It’s launching in 8 hours time. Last chance to get the discounted price of $49. Sign up now if you want to learn how to break free of obsessive thought […] The post Coffeehouse: social media expectancy first appeared on Living with Limerence .
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Inside Love podcast
I was recently invited onto the San Francisco NPR affiliate KQED, as part of their ongoing series “Inside Love”. It was a great chat with their host Lesley McClurg about all things limerence. The recording (and transcript) are now available for listening and reading. Check it out here: https://next.kqed.org/news/12101892/is-it-love-or-limerence-why-intense-chemistry-can-be-misleading The post Inside Love podcast first appeared on Living with Limerence .
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Limerence case studies
A couple of months ago, I laid out a plan for what I wanted to achieve with Living with Limerence in the months ahead. Part 1 of the plan was to create some workshops to solve specific limerence problems. Well, the first is now up and running and providing valuable mental tools for how to […] The post Limerence case studies first appeared on Living with Limerence .
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I just need to get them out of my system
There’s an unusual phenomenon that sometimes happens during unwanted limerence where a limerent, in the throes of a painful and overwhelming emotional need that is in conflict with the practicalities of real life, decides they need to “get LO out of their system.” This usually means having sex with their LO. I’ll be honest, I’ve […] The post I just need to get them out of my system first appeared on Living with Limerence .
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The five forces that drive romantic obsession
Sometimes love can be overwhelming. We can fall so hard that we end up becoming obsessed with another person—until we literally can’t get them out of our head. This is a mental state known as limerence—an intense infatuation that feels like you’ve become addicted to another person. What causes this? Why do some of us […] The post The five forces that drive romantic obsession first appeared on Living with Limerence .
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I Made a Better Dynamic Array than stb_ds.h
A production-ready, macro-based vector library to generate type-safe dynamic arrays.
Lazarus Overlook's Manor · EN
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The True Reason Why the Web Is Toxic
Anonymity, bots, trolls, algorithms… none of these are the true reason.
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I Made a Lightweight C Alternative to std::unordered_map
A production-ready, macro-based library to generate type-safe hashmaps.
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Medicated Emacs Initial Release!
My new vanilla-feeling Emacs config is released!
Lazarus Overlook's Manor · EN
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You Should Play Dwarf Fortress
The best game you can play is out there, waiting for you.
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California’s OS Age Verification Law Is a Nothing Burger
How the world isn’t ending and the media is misleading you.
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Literally Everything About Creative Writing
An exhaustive look into what writing is made of
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How I Learned To Zoom Out — Stepping Back To See My Big Picture
I believed the closer I got, the more I saw. That might've been wrong. Bigger Is Better About a year ago, I obtained a key insight from videography that I feel was significant in a broad life sense too. I started freezing moments in my
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Why My Life Has No Meaning — Revival Through Naviety And Nihilism
Nothing feels important anymore, not even existence itself. But perhaps that in itself is a significant step to progress. Meaningless Narratives The year is 2025. A quarter of a century has passed, as with a quarter of my life. I've made progress, but still feel nowhere close to
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Why I'll Spend My Life Away — The Consequences Of Holding On
The constant need to accumulate, save, and hold onto every bit of life, perhaps only served to devalue it further. Savings & Holdings Letting go of things has been tough in the past. Life was laid out as this linear progression – metrics only went straight up and away. Take
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How I Learned To Zoom In — Rejecting Fear And Finding Experiences That Matter
Doom defined my perception of the world. Paralysis ensured. Perhaps the narratives were true, maybe they were lies. But I'll see that through my own eyes. Totality Versus Reality Ideas in this age are more polarized than ever. Either I agree, or I'm against something. A
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What My First Job Taught Me — Leaving Retail To Start Anew
Everyone has to start somewhere, and I finally got my chance. The next chapter starts here. Onto The Next My time at my first job will end in a month, not necessarily by choice but due to relocation. On the bright side, returning to my hometown after 11 years is
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What I Left My First Job With — Starting A New Chapter
The day's finally come. I'll miss everyone. Hello, Goodbye It may sound like corny, corporate jargon. But my first job has truly been an experience. The role and environment I landed transformed me in many ways. After the lowest of the lows, the most critical of
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How A Few Months Can Feel Like Years — Hobbies, Electricution, And New Life Things
It's been a few months. But it feels much longer. Long Time No See Nearly 3 months have passed since I wrote something on this website. That's not necessarily a bad thing, though. Writing was my tool to acknowledge, understand, and overcome my adversities. So perhaps
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When You Lose Your Best Friend — Broken Communications & Betrayal
It's been a while, hasn't it? A lot's happened since then... Loss I haven't written anything since the start of the year. But journaling was always a method of emotional outlet, to understand deep issues in my life. So perhaps the absent
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