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My Writing Struggle
When I first set up this blog I had big plans for it. I wanted to share my tinkering with technology and online privacy. The main goal was to educate and inform others. The first target was 10 articles in year one. I published 3. I missed the same goalpost the next year, and every year after. Why? Why can’t I write as much as I want? My High Bar # I’m not short of ideas. I have a stack of drafts sitting on the back burner — posts that didn’t make the cut. Wait, what cut?
Posts on ilyess · EN
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My Quest for IndieWeb Citizenship
Browsing the internet, I landed on the IndieWeb site and went exploring that philosophy. I wasn’t new to the concept, but up until then I hadn’t taken the time to dig deep and really understand what it was all about. I knew it had to do with microformats — conventional HTML tags bloggers use to annotate information on their sites — and POSSE — which in practice for me means posting here first, then syndicating to Mastodon . But beyond that, I didn’t fully grasp the point. So I grabbed a cup of coffee and dove down the rabbit hole.
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Pi-hole Docker Version V6.5 2026.10.1
On October 31, 2026, the Pi-hole team released Docker version 2026.10.1 of their product, this being the latest version for Docker. On October 17, 2026, the Pi-hole team had released version 6.5 of their core product. You can install it for free on your Synology NAS, UGREEN NAS, or Asustor NAS using my handy guides. ... Read more about Pi-hole Docker Version V6.5 2026.10.1
Marius Hosting · EN
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Synology: Best Docker Containers For Halloween 2026
The night is getting longer, the pumpkins are glowing on the porch and somewhere in the corner of your house your Synology NAS is humming quietly in the dark, like a friendly little ghost that never sleeps. Halloween is the perfect excuse to give it something fun to do. Some of these apps keep an ... Read more about Synology: Best Docker Containers For Halloween 2026
Marius Hosting · EN
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How to Install Mitra on Your Synology NAS
Mitra is a self-hosted calendar that puts events and tasks on a single timeline so you can see when there is actually room to get things done. It runs as a single Docker container with its own database, stores calendars locally if you prefer, and syncs bidirectionally with CalDAV, Google Calendar, Apple Calendar, Notion, Todoist, ... Read more about How to Install Mitra on Your Synology NAS
Marius Hosting · EN
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UGREEN NAS UGOS PRO 1.21.0.0190 Released
On November 2, 2026, UGREEN released the new UGOS PRO version 1.21.0.0190, the successor of 1.20.0.0142. Good news this time for the iDX 6011 / iDX 6011 Pro owners too: the DXP series and the iDX series get the same build, so nobody has to wait a few extra weeks. Below I will guide you ... Read more about UGREEN NAS UGOS PRO 1.21.0.0190 Released
Marius Hosting · EN
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How to Install Monline on Your Asustor NAS
Monline is a self-hosted application for tracking subscriptions, recurring payments, and budgets. It pairs a React frontend with a Node.js server and embedded SQLite storage, offering subscription management with automatic logos and flexible billing, a payment calendar, budget overviews, payment insights, bank statement imports from services like Enpara, DenizBank, and Garanti BBVA, multi-language support, themes, ... Read more about How to Install Monline on Your Asustor NAS
Marius Hosting · EN
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How to Install Mitra on Your UGREEN NAS
Mitra is a self-hosted calendar that puts events and tasks on a single timeline so you can see when there is actually room to get things done. It runs as a single Docker container with its own database, stores calendars locally if you prefer, and syncs bidirectionally with CalDAV, Google Calendar, Apple Calendar, Notion, Todoist, ... Read more about How to Install Mitra on Your UGREEN NAS
Marius Hosting · EN
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CLI
A collection of command line related notes. Mostly things I can't quite remember.
Luca Pette · EN
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New workshop on obsessive thought loops
For a while now I’ve been talking about a new workshop I’m building, specifically designed to help deal with one of the worst problems caused by limerence: obsessive thought loops. Obsessive thought loops are a huge problem. To judge from the number of people who contact me for support, they are the most distressing symptom […] The post New workshop on obsessive thought loops first appeared on Living with Limerence .
Living with Limerence · EN
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More thoughts on obsessive thoughts
Busy with travelling and finishing the workshop this week, so here’s my latest video on how intrusive thoughts and rumination make addiction worse. Reminder that you can sign up for the workshop here: New workshop on obsessive thought loops The post More thoughts on obsessive thoughts first appeared on Living with Limerence .
Living with Limerence · EN
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Workshop open for preorders
I’ve been preoccupied for the last few weeks. You might have noticed. Well, the workshop on How to Break Free of Obsessive Thought Loops in limerence is now, officially, open for preorders! As an early bird bonus, the price is reduced to $49 (standard price going forward will be $67), and for the first 20 […] The post Workshop open for preorders first appeared on Living with Limerence .
Living with Limerence · EN
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Coffeehouse: social media expectancy
It’s October. Time for another visit to the LwL virtual coffee house. My week has been super busy with prep for the Obsessive Thoughts Workshop. It’s launching in 8 hours time. Last chance to get the discounted price of $49. Sign up now if you want to learn how to break free of obsessive thought […] The post Coffeehouse: social media expectancy first appeared on Living with Limerence .
Living with Limerence · EN
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Inside Love podcast
I was recently invited onto the San Francisco NPR affiliate KQED, as part of their ongoing series “Inside Love”. It was a great chat with their host Lesley McClurg about all things limerence. The recording (and transcript) are now available for listening and reading. Check it out here: https://next.kqed.org/news/12101892/is-it-love-or-limerence-why-intense-chemistry-can-be-misleading The post Inside Love podcast first appeared on Living with Limerence .
Living with Limerence · EN
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Limerence case studies
A couple of months ago, I laid out a plan for what I wanted to achieve with Living with Limerence in the months ahead. Part 1 of the plan was to create some workshops to solve specific limerence problems. Well, the first is now up and running and providing valuable mental tools for how to […] The post Limerence case studies first appeared on Living with Limerence .
Living with Limerence · EN
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I just need to get them out of my system
There’s an unusual phenomenon that sometimes happens during unwanted limerence where a limerent, in the throes of a painful and overwhelming emotional need that is in conflict with the practicalities of real life, decides they need to “get LO out of their system.” This usually means having sex with their LO. I’ll be honest, I’ve […] The post I just need to get them out of my system first appeared on Living with Limerence .
Living with Limerence · EN
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The five forces that drive romantic obsession
Sometimes love can be overwhelming. We can fall so hard that we end up becoming obsessed with another person—until we literally can’t get them out of our head. This is a mental state known as limerence—an intense infatuation that feels like you’ve become addicted to another person. What causes this? Why do some of us […] The post The five forces that drive romantic obsession first appeared on Living with Limerence .
Living with Limerence · EN